Tuesday, November 07, 2006

I blew it

Big time. Here's the story. I have a MySpace account. A couple of days ago, I got a friend invite from the [fillinnameofschool] Administration. I accepted the invitation, then quickly realized (after looking at the profile) that this MySpace page was certainly not created by the nameofschool Administration. It was, I will say, pretty darned clever and hardly offensive (though certainly not guaranteed to stay that way). But, it rang every bell on my Never-Never-EVER-Impersonate-Anyone meter. So without thinking too terribly deeply (bad, Franceylibrarian, bad!), I filed an impersonation complaint with MySpace. Apparently this is such a big problem that MySpace has a special complaint form just for reporting impersonations of teachers and school people.

Some time later it dawned on me that I should just do the mature thing and leave a comment on the page itself, expressing my objections. After all, I had been friended. This morning when I logged on I found that the name of the page had been changed to "Not really the...fillinnameofschool Administration." And the author(s) had sent a personal message to my own page. I immediately sat down and shot off a new message to the MySpace complaint department, asking that my previous complaint be withdrawn. Sadly, a few hours later, I got a message from the MySpace bot telling me that the false profile was scheduled to be deleted. And then it was. I sent another e-mail. But I fear it is too late.

Anyway, I have betrayed a trust and I feel rather rotten about it. Maybe I'll have to turn myself into a scenario. It would serve me right.

3 Comments:

Anonymous Aliisa said...

aw, it's not THAT bad. (notice how i'm commenting on this 5 minutes after 7th period?)

3:07 PM  
Anonymous E. Majerus said...

I agree with Aliisa - not so bad. But I also must admit I'm a little confused b/c I'm not on MySpace and am not totally aware of the etiquette involved.

I'd say: 1. You responded in a reasonable way, but 2. It sounds like "Think Best First" may have helped you respond in a way you were more comfortable with in the long run.

You're clearly a very nice, ethical person to let something like this get you stressed and feeling guilty. So feel good about yourself!

10:41 AM  
Anonymous kr said...

yeah definitely do not worry about it. it's not THAT bad. it's actually not bad at all. that account was kind of lame in my opinion, though i was friended with it...

9:44 PM  

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