I blew it
Big time. Here's the story. I have a MySpace account. A couple of days ago, I got a friend invite from the [fillinnameofschool] Administration. I accepted the invitation, then quickly realized (after looking at the profile) that this MySpace page was certainly not created by the nameofschool Administration. It was, I will say, pretty darned clever and hardly offensive (though certainly not guaranteed to stay that way). But, it rang every bell on my Never-Never-EVER-Impersonate-Anyone meter. So without thinking too terribly deeply (bad, Franceylibrarian, bad!), I filed an impersonation complaint with MySpace. Apparently this is such a big problem that MySpace has a special complaint form just for reporting impersonations of teachers and school people.
Some time later it dawned on me that I should just do the mature thing and leave a comment on the page itself, expressing my objections. After all, I had been friended. This morning when I logged on I found that the name of the page had been changed to "Not really the...fillinnameofschool Administration." And the author(s) had sent a personal message to my own page. I immediately sat down and shot off a new message to the MySpace complaint department, asking that my previous complaint be withdrawn. Sadly, a few hours later, I got a message from the MySpace bot telling me that the false profile was scheduled to be deleted. And then it was. I sent another e-mail. But I fear it is too late.
Anyway, I have betrayed a trust and I feel rather rotten about it. Maybe I'll have to turn myself into a scenario. It would serve me right.
Some time later it dawned on me that I should just do the mature thing and leave a comment on the page itself, expressing my objections. After all, I had been friended. This morning when I logged on I found that the name of the page had been changed to "Not really the...fillinnameofschool Administration." And the author(s) had sent a personal message to my own page. I immediately sat down and shot off a new message to the MySpace complaint department, asking that my previous complaint be withdrawn. Sadly, a few hours later, I got a message from the MySpace bot telling me that the false profile was scheduled to be deleted. And then it was. I sent another e-mail. But I fear it is too late.
Anyway, I have betrayed a trust and I feel rather rotten about it. Maybe I'll have to turn myself into a scenario. It would serve me right.
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3 Comments:
aw, it's not THAT bad. (notice how i'm commenting on this 5 minutes after 7th period?)
I agree with Aliisa - not so bad. But I also must admit I'm a little confused b/c I'm not on MySpace and am not totally aware of the etiquette involved.
I'd say: 1. You responded in a reasonable way, but 2. It sounds like "Think Best First" may have helped you respond in a way you were more comfortable with in the long run.
You're clearly a very nice, ethical person to let something like this get you stressed and feeling guilty. So feel good about yourself!
yeah definitely do not worry about it. it's not THAT bad. it's actually not bad at all. that account was kind of lame in my opinion, though i was friended with it...
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