The older guy in authority
Every summer, I go to Camp Echo, a YMCA summer camp in Fremont, Mich. I always have a blast. But something else always happens; I develop a crush on a male counselor.
It isn’t a serious thing, and it definitely isn’t an “I want to date you” kind of crush. Nevertheless, there is definitely an attraction.
I am not the only one either. Please don’t think of me as some weird, horny little camper. Girls across the camp can be seen giggling and whispering about a variety of male counselors; most pick activities that they know will be run by their “crush.”
It can extend past camp. Male instructors of all kinds can become the objects of female desire.
For some reason, men in power hold a certain appeal.
First of all, they are older. Girls like older men, let’s face it.
Also, and probably more importantly, a man in authority who captures the respect and attention of a female under his juridiction is irresistable. Especially one who can bestow knowledge. Girls dig mature, helpful, and smart guys.
Finally, men who try to bring out and nurture our best qualities really inspire us to impress them. We are like Pavlov’s dogs when it comes to teacherly praise.
— Sarah Pfander